>>98961trvke, albiet the sex itself shouldnt purely be about pleasure but rather mutual vulnerability. it is a chance to show your significant other the most base, animalistic part of you and be accepted not in spite of it because of it, and as an opportunity to see a side of your partner that no one else has ever seen. it is about building a bond and becoming closer than close with your other half, and finally, even if for just a fleeting moment, sating the hunger that compels all matter into motion, the need to be whole again