>>97137The blackpill is mostly true, I'm not the guy you replied to but I'll agree with that.
What most BP people forget is that you need to have some sort of direction given for people for who the BP applies. You can go on about hypergamy and looks differences and feminism all day, but it doesn't change the situation for people out there, at the end of the day we are all khhv who want a meaningful relationship but will likely never get it.
The most that i've heard is rehab's "Don't be a free agent in life". It makes sense to tell people to contribute minimally and to focus on what they enjoy, but what are people going to actually do?
Obsessing about nofap is one thing people do but its self destructing. You can quit porn but quitting masturbation is harder than quitting any drug. A healthy male has an instinctual, hormonal drive for reproduction, and since we aren't fucking the only way to satisfy it is to jerk off. If you hate yourself for jerking off you will fuck yourself up mentally in the long run which is why you get furfags, faggots and trannies who are so desperate and self loathing they choose anything to have some sex they can mentally justify.
Before you call me a jew, I swear I'm not and I don't support wanking or porn. Its obviously not good but what else are you gonna do?
I think the best way to go about it is to make an effort to quit watching pornography, and minimise gooning. Porn offers nothing really and lets you jerk off even if you don't have the urge. Wank only when you get a strong urge, get it over with and go about your day.
Incels need some direction with what to do with their time. It is stupid to chase after women since they won't ever reciprocate it and it will just rub it in your face that you won't get a wife. The best things I can say is to find a (somewhat) fulfilling job, do some social sports, go to the gym to keep your body healthy and active, and most of all, find some hobby to fully immerse yourself into. If you like history, start digging into archives and maybe going to those LARP re-enactment events, you might make some friends. If you like video games, try learning how to code a bit and make some small games. If you like music, learn how to make a few tracks.
Theres no excuses to not do so. Even fucking DBDR has the ability to make some music as a hobby and that guy is in the worst possible situation and has been ran over by life repeatedly.