>>82314>>82316>i zone out thinking of her being rapedwtf nigga
<fax spaceI do have some good news: she likely wasnt raped
take brapzil for instance, with about 81000 rapes each year and a population of 213 million, which results in 380 rapes per million
lets multiply it by 20 (my estimate for your gf's age), which results in 7600 rapes per million, or an average of 0.76% chance of getting raped in 20 years
note that all these numbers are taken from rape central (brazil) if india published some statistics i'd use that, but its safe to assume wherever you live has less rape than brazil
in the usa, about 1.6% of the population has bpd, and 75% of those are women, which means 2.4% of women have bpd
if we assume all women who are raped develop bpd as a result, this would mean 0.76/2.4 roughly 31.7% of women with bpd, and likely far less for western nations, have been raped
however, in surveys 44%-80% of women with bpd report being csa'd, of course not all rapes are csa, but even if we're being generous and say half of them are, this leaves a 28%.-64%. discrepancy
in other words: over half the women with bpd who tell you they've been raped are lying
<but why?one of the symptoms is separation anxiety
if she tells you she got csa'd, are you more or less likely to leave?
if she tells you she's going to kill herself, are you more or less likely to leave?
these lies arent malevolent, she just thinks that any small decrease in attention you give means you're abandoning her
<but she really did! (elaborate story)if she really did experience something traumatic as a child, she'd be having an anxiety attack recalling it
it wouldnt have that much detail, in fact most of it would be unintelligible and incoherent
at some point she'd stop talking and hyperventilate while staring off at nothing and then contort as if getting punched in the stomach
nobaldi with childhood trauma, especially that severe, can tell you a whole lot of details while remaining calm and collected
