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Chud Thu 29 Oct 2026 20:57:44 No.104491 View View Original Report

I genuinely have no idea where to find girls my age. I don't want to be a clittycel chud my entire life, I'm 18 and still a khhv, no dating experience, only 1 girl I could even consider my friend in the last 5 years of my life, and only because we sat next to in class. My issue is that I'm doing an apprenticeship in engineering, so theres only 2 girls, and one is already in a relationship and the other is a muslim. Theres barely any girls my age in the company, and I have no clue where to meet more. Friends are out of the question because I went to a boys school in secondary, so none of them have female friends.

>Inb4 hating on me for wanting to meet foids
I don't want to be an incel sitting in his room alone his whole life ok? If I have any chance, its now, while I still have my hair, I'm not fat and I'm still young. I'm not that ugly either, just a bit of a sperg. Even if its not a relationship, being around girls my age is a good thing, it means I will at least be able to socialise with them and won't be an awkward retard.

I know its the wrong board to ask for advice on since most of you are also incels, but do you at least know of where I can meet women? Are apps worth a shot or just jewish lust farms? Ideally whatever it is wouldn't require too much time, I still have the apprenticeship to deal with as well so I'm quite busy.

Chud Thu 29 Oct 2026 21:09:32 No.104494 Report

Quoted By: >>104499

So I also have the same problem as you but it's for different reasons, and I have thought that I could meet girls while i move to bigger city by going to different events related to my interests.
So try doing that.
If you like music go to concerts and festivals(preferably ones that are more niche and less crowded)
If you like movies go to movie festivals
If you like games go to conventions
And so on

Chud Thu 29 Oct 2026 21:11:22 No.104495 Report

>So I also have the same problem as you but it's for different reasons, and I have thought that I could meet girls while i move to bigger city by going to different events related to my interests.
>So try doing that.

Cons are terrible for dating, highest false rape accusation chance of them all
>If you like music go to concerts and festivals(preferably ones that are more niche and less crowded)
>If you like movies go to movie festivals
>If you like games go to conventions
>And so on

Chud Thu 29 Oct 2026 21:12:20 No.104496 Report

>So I also have the same problem as you but it's for different reasons, and I have thought that I could meet girls while i move to bigger city by going to different events related to my interests.
>So try doing that.
>If you like music go to concerts and festivals(preferably ones that are more niche and less crowded)
>If you like movies go to movie festivals
>If you like games go to conventions
>And so on

Cons are terrible for dating highest false rape accusation chance of them all

Chud Thu 29 Oct 2026 21:17:43 No.104499 Report

Quoted By: >>104501 >>104518

>>104494
Thanks for the answer, my issue is that most of my interests are either spergy to the point where I would only meet men, or I am not involved in the community and don't want to be because they are all faggots. A vidya convention would theoretically make sense, but any women there are likely tranny-loving cosplayfags. Might still be worth a try doebeit, worst case scenario I just look at the merch or whatever they have.
An example of a sperg interest I have is tanks, I went to an event at a museum where they got some running and did a demonstration, there were basically just men with the only women being mothers that probably got dragged along by their autist sons/husbands

Chud Thu 29 Oct 2026 21:26:19 No.104501 Report

Quoted By: >>104503

>>104499
Also the advice that i usually get is to just talk with people, even if you don't like it and it's understandable and awkward at first, it's sadly the only way to meet people

Chud Thu 29 Oct 2026 21:32:35 No.104503 Report

Quoted By: >>104507 >>104649

>>104501
I dont have a trouble with talking to others, my issue is that i need to be in an environment with people that are actually willing to talk. Cold approaching is a regarded strat that nobody ever used. I managed to make friends with that girl since she was in my physics class at school and we sat next to each other. I just need an opportunity to actually talk to them.

The advice "just talk to people bro" is flung around so often its ridiculous. If you walk up to a random and start talking to them they will likely think you are a gigasperg, unless you have something in common, like sharing a class, office, project, club, etc.

Chud Thu 29 Oct 2026 22:03:39 No.104507 Report

>>104503
I get that "talk to people" advice before i usually don't do that even when surrounded by people i share interests with

Chud Fri 30 Oct 2026 00:55:57 No.104518 Report

Quoted By: >>104531

>>104499
If anything you get to make friends at a vidya con, if youre giga autistica I suggest putting a cosplay on to hide your face a bit more so the awkardness feels less bad
>An example of a sperg interest I have is tanks, I went to an event at a museum where they got some running and did a demonstration, there were basically just men with the only women being mothers that probably got dragged along by their autist sons/husbands
Dont follow this rabbit hole of trying to find your woman through autistic interests, atleast not through shit like tanks. Try to track what autistic interests women are actually into like anime and shit, my past exes were into stuff like anime and comic books, I wasnt super into it at the time but when I was in the crush phase I got more into it so I could properly target them and get closer, to maybe get a real shot if that makes any sense

Chud Fri 30 Oct 2026 07:53:22 No.104531 Report

>>104518
Im definitely not going down that rabbit hole geg. I only went to the tank thing because i wanted to, i wasnt thinking of women in the slightest when i went.

I guess ill go to a vidya con then. Would you say its good to go with or without friends?
Im thinking if i go there i might as well see what the whole cosplay thing is about, would take very little effort to go as the engineer from tf2

Chud Sat 31 Oct 2026 06:20:38 No.104638 Report

Quoted By: >>104656

>>104491
stop worrying about it man, you never will be able to stop worrying about it but at least understand that fact and strive for a better tomorrow even if its infinitely far away. i understand the reality of your chud life feeds your lamentations but simply put nothing you can do will help you out. also ill say this, there is no catharsis, there is nothing that will allot you vehemence, and nor is there anything to alleviate your spirit.

no advice can help you and it never will, its just simple, there's some immutable quality that has some ineffable nature and you will never know or comprehend what its true quality is. you will see deformed goblins having children, you will see degenerate faggots who get fucked in the ass by other men who lay pipe on women. the literal most (that you would assume) unattractive people you could imagen somehow are fucking the shit out of foids and yet you seam to be healthy and somewhat fit (or at least not obese or fat) and yet you seemingly have no potential to tap some foid poon of your own. it really seams like there is just some sort of magical force in reality that separates men into 2 classes, the ones who get poon and the ones who never get poon at all, and it seams like you and i are in the latter.

just like the nature of reality people have pathological tendencies that attribute totally crazy ideologies to things, this is how you get religions, this is in the same way as that you have people who try to pathologies this unknowable force that stops certain guys from being able to get poon. these things witch they prescribe to you are a extension of that tendency and are inherently unaligned with the true nature of reality, the realty being that it might as well be magic or is so unknowable to humans that you will never be able to comprehend it in your lifetime. it is true that these things will help if you aren't being suppressed by this essentially magic force, but if you are there is no hope. you could methodically do everything they suggest and it still wouldn't matter at all.

>> is it your low psl and unmasculine body morphology?
i really don't know at this point, maybe that's it. probably not, as i said literal gay faggots lay pipe, and if you have asked any for some reason all of them say thay have a myriad of foids waiting in line to let them fuck them.

>> is it the fact that you don't leave your house?
maybe its that one, probably not as well, you wouldn't know that foids don't like ypu if you had never ben around them.

>> is it the fact that you have no capacity for social interactions and you cant "rizz" the foids.
that's pritty much a joke and having "rizz" has never helped anyone.

as i said, it might as well be magic, all you can do is cope seeth and mald.

Chud Sat 31 Oct 2026 10:36:11 No.104649 Report

Quoted By: >>104656

>>104491
Bouta be in the exact same fucking situation when exams end

>>104503
Make the fucking opportunity to talk to girls yourself. The girl of your dreams, or any girl, is not gonna fall out of the sky, land on your lap and start bouncing on your dick.
Cold approaching does work, I have only done it a few times but with a pretty high success rate of landing date. Of course there is the next problem of her noticing that i'm a sperg and not going on a second date with me.

I used to think and was told that that first interaction is the most difficult part, it's not that bad if you have the balls to go and talk to her in public and are not appallingly looking.

Chud Sat 31 Oct 2026 12:23:04 No.104656 Report

>>104638
I do leave my house and im not ugly doebeit. I go to the pub 1-2 times a week, theres just nobody young there, and the only women in clubs are absolute whores.

My issue isnt even an inability to talk to girls. There just aren't any at all. Im not in a university town so theres nobody my age.

>>104649
Same thing here. Theres genuinely no women in my area that i would consider cold approaching, other than a few at work, and im not gonna get fired for heckin sexual harassment because i asked some random secretary out. If i was in a uni maybe things would be easier, i could just ask out some random girl at a party a shitload of people are at.

Maybe i should wait a bit. Some of the other apprentices are social and go to a party or two, once i get to know them a little better ill see if i can tag onto their parties to meet people.

Chud Sat 31 Oct 2026 13:06:40 No.104657 Report

Quoted By: >>104671

Make friends before seeking romance, this is the most important thing to do and will help with current relationships you may want and with talking to women in the future. Best advice I can give

Chud Sat 31 Oct 2026 13:50:38 No.104671 Report

>>104657
I agree with you on this, it lets you know if you're actually compatible or not in advance. Also you can meet more via friends of friends. I just need to be in an environment to make those friends to begin with.

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