>>10656Depends on the age gap. Since adults wild more authority in society than children nowadays, a relationship between a 16 year old and a 20 year old would be imbalanced an incongruent. At 16 you cannot vote, in most cases cannot drive, cannot drink, are still in school, and are living under the authority of your parents. At 20 you should be able to have all the benefits of adulthood along with experience, money and sometimes power. If someone who has more experience and power than the other person in a relationship, chances are that they can easily take advantage of the other.