Imagine you're a 30 year old genius engineer for the amerimutt MIC who's socially awkward and shy, and has a 4/10 face. In the previous century those circumstances meant nothing, you would still easily find a tradwife and make 3 kids with her. In the year of our Lord 2026, however, these debuffs basically completely lock you out of relationships unless you are willing to throw your dignity outta window and marry some divorced roastie who will just use you for your money.
So of course a cute Asian girl who talks to you and acts nicely is gonna blow your mind so much you'll turn your brain off and fall for it.