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Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 00:20:19 No.20806 View View Original Report

Can I ask some real unironic advice from you soybros? I have no one to tell this shit to

Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 00:23:46 No.20807 Report

sure but i cant promise it will ne good advice

Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 00:31:18 No.20808 Report

Quoted By: >>20812 >>20815 >>20828

well

i'm 17 i have a 12 year old sister.
She is very alone and other than school, spends 24/7 on her computer/phone (Plays genshin impact and uses tiktok mostly).
At school, she doesn't talk to anyone ever, she thinks she is superior to her other colleagues (no she doesnt take her phone to school.). At home she is very quiet, ill-tempered and rude. I find it perplexing that my mother lets her lock herself up in her room all day, since when i was her age i wasn't allowed to even close the door. She takes anxiety meds.

Our parents are divorced. I live with our father (i basically live alone, he wakes up before me and gets home late at night, and goes straight to bed) and she lives with our bipolar insane mom.

more words words words coming

Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 00:33:43 No.20810 Report

Quoted By: >>20812 >>20815

I guess the advice i want is how to help her man. It's sad seeing the person i care most about like this.

Anxiety meds, woman, fatherless, tiktok. You know the stereotypes. You know what i'm talking about.

Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 00:38:31 No.20812 Report

Quoted By: >>20813

>>20810
>>20808
idk, i have mostly grown apathetic towards things like this
if i had to say, it would just be to let her "grow out of it". at least help her with school and tell her how to prosper in that, but really at that age you dont want to hear shit from your older siblings. unfortunately i dont think that is something you could do on your own, it takes a family effort to help most people.

Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 00:42:16 No.20813 Report

Quoted By: >>20814

>>20812
Vlw man, I just wanted to tell my problems to someone really. There is no way i can tell this for my IRL interest fake friends, much less my family.

Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 00:43:15 No.20814 Report

>>20813
I meant "thanks" where i wrote "Vlw"

Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 00:44:49 No.20815 Report

Quoted By: >>20816

>>20808
>>20810
Talk to her more

Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 00:49:03 No.20816 Report

Quoted By: >>20817

>>20815

I do it whenever I can. I always try to bring her with me for my walks (I spend 2/3 of my weekend outside because i abhor being home so much) but she almost always refuses.
But all I can really talk to her about is genchink shillpact and super mundane stuff. I only see her on weekends.

I'll keep trying THO. She's the one i care about the most in the world

Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 01:01:11 No.20817 Report

Quoted By: >>20818

>>20816
Is your mother that insane?

Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 01:08:54 No.20818 Report

Quoted By: >>20819

>>20817
I just get a bad vibe man. She's not as bad as she used to be.

When i was a kid i lived with her, (before our parents divorced).
She was overprotective and controlling. Very extreme mood swings. I just have a few particular bad memories.
She would sometimes Throw, plates, glasses, whatever on the ground when she was angry, one time she threw a jar full of pickles on me when i was 8.

One time, when i was 10, I was crying in my room, and she was on hers with my sister, she says to her "This boy will murder us one day" just loud enough so i can hear it. Worst experience of my life by far. Psycho bitch who tortures a child for no reason.

Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 01:10:20 No.20819 Report

Quoted By: >>20820

>>20818
I never told this to anyone ever btw

Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 01:20:32 No.20820 Report

Quoted By: >>20822 >>20866

>>20819
Maybe you should see a psychiatrist, and tell him about these issues. I've been discussing my issues with my psychiatrist lately, and he's been very helpful and supportive.

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Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 01:23:55 No.20821 Report

Quoted By: >>20823 >>20825

>Maybe you should see a psychiatrist, and tell him about these issues. I've been discussing my issues with my psychiatrist lately, and he's been very helpful and supportive.

Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 01:24:45 No.20822 Report

Quoted By: >>20824

>>20820
Maybe I should. But it probably will cost me a lot. In the future after I get a real job I will try

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Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 01:25:14 No.20823 Report

>>20821
>>((((psychiatrist))))

Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 01:27:33 No.20824 Report

>>20822
Yeah, the expense is the one problem. I'm sorry about that.

Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 01:27:38 No.20825 Report

Quoted By: >>20826 >>20827

>>20821
me in the center on the third image

Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 01:28:27 No.20826 Report

Quoted By: >>20827

>>20825
ywnbcia

Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 01:29:00 No.20827 Report

>>20826
>>20825
wait no im retarded
ywnbanalienlookingmotherfuckerwhoscontrollingnpcs

Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 01:31:27 No.20828 Report

Quoted By: >>20829

>>20808
Maybe encourage your sister to make friends with people, preferably good people if you can find them. It will help her grow a new perspective outside of herself and your mom. And maybe they can help her from there, as she may not necessarily listen to you much.

Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 01:40:42 No.20829 Report

>>20828
Though, to be fair, it's sometimes hard to tell if someone is good friend or not until you get to know them. Just have her make friends. Usually, any friend is better than no friend, especially if you have abusive parents. If the friendship does turn truly problematic, then you can tell her to brake it off.

Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 02:08:37 No.20830 Report

(((girls)))
even when they’re related to you
(((girls)))

Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 02:37:17 No.20833 Report

Quoted By: >>20844 >>20868

>I have no one to tell this shit to
Seriously? NOBODY except a website dedicated to posting cartoons of bald men?

Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 03:22:04 No.20844 Report

>>20833
nigger

Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 10:32:04 No.20866 Report

Quoted By: >>20867

>>20820
unironically kill yourself

Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 10:36:28 No.20867 Report

>>20866
kek this
(((therapy))) is for weak faggots

Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 10:38:43 No.20868 Report

Quoted By: >>20869 >>20871

>>20833
I can tell it to my buddies who'll make fun of me for worrying abt this or to my relatives (!bad idea)

Chud Sat 25 Sep 2021 10:39:19 No.20869 Report

Quoted By: >>20871

>>20868
>I can tell it to my buddies who'll make fun of me for worrying
then their not ur buds!

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