geg, just jewgling this shit is as you said just giving poor guy rich wompa, AI mostly included. HOWEVER I FOUND A COUPLE RECS
AI suggested kimi ni todoke [might just be a manga? maybe there's a show] and maid-sama as, what you requested, poor foid rich guy (needs snopes I've never seen anything I'm recommending in this whole post btw)
'dit was the only other exception and there suggestions were this first show which the reddit foid asking for something similar to you seemed to have already been a fan of
> Emma a victorian romance would be a perfect fit, theres 2 seasons
and this other guy (if it seems like there's a lot of specifications here in his words words words the chick on reddit specifically hoped for a show without a highschool, no diddy shit and actual romance rather than constant sex scenes o algo if that matters)
<Kuragehime, there is a bit of romance in there. Also Net-juu no Susume. Both series the FL are unemployed. Don't suppose you would want old man/high school girl in what would basically be considered grooming, still, Koi to Yobu ni wa Kimochi Warui. Same theme but better execution Koi wa Ameagari no You ni. Ristorante Paradiso, not exactly rich man/poor girl, but it is a good show. Rec, again, not exactly what you want but also a good show.
I can't vouch for any of these, and am unsure whether you've already stumbled across any of these with your own searching. Hopefully some of these are good.